Analysing
our dreams is a very constructive and worthwhile activity, which
when approached correctly, not only helps us to understand
what we are truly capable of doing, but to control our emotions and conquer
our fears.
Whilst
our brain is simply the controller of our physical, our mind is the
ultimate power of which we know relatively nothing about, whilst
scientists wonder at what we are each capable of, we continue to produce exceptional
and vivid mental images every night when sleeping,
which actually tell us a story, give us direction and information, and help us
develop us into the people we are today.
In
analysing our Dreams and thoughts we begin to open the doors of
knowledge to our inner selves and who we really are.
The
information in these pages is a simple guide on how to obtain a great deal
more information from a dream, which enables ourselves, as
analyst's, to reach in and further explore the dreamers conditions and
emotions.
What
is the Story or Background to the Dream?
Many
and certainly the most important areas of our lives feature in our
dreams, or are influenced by them. Consider any aspect in a Dream
and you can connect it to part of our waking life.
What
is the main action in your Dream?
There
is always an overall activity in a dream i.e.: walking, running,
looking, building, destroying, or trying to escape. You should define what
it is, consider the expression's, if such an action can be found in
your waking life - you should identify it fully! Then look for more
information, i.e. what lies behind it!
What
is your role in the Dream?
What
are the relationships, are you friend, lover, aggressor, dictator, watcher. Are you taking part or trying to avoid the situation, are you at
the back, at the front, or leading the band or hiding from the affray.
You must be inquisitive, look for any situation where you can exploit the
dream fully.
Are
you active or passive in the Dream?
Are
taking part in the Dream, in a leading role (active) or are you watching,
being directed by someone else (passive), which could be a
condition in your waking life.
What
do you feel in the Dream?
To
interpret our dreams we need to recall our emotions, what were your feelings,
were you Pleased, Frightened, Happy, Unhappy, Sad, Sexually aroused, Ecstatic,
Disappointed, Frustrated, Angry
The
emotion you feel is very important to an interpretation, as this may
show an opposite to reality or reflect your true feelings. The emotion
is not a conclusion in itself and must be linked to the story, or
situation in the dream.
Try
to define what your physical feelings were. Were you wet, tired, cold,
hungry or lost in the dream. Were your feelings expressive, held
back or suppressed. Were your feelings suppressed, if so, further
investigation is required.
What
is the reason factor?
Something,
invariably happens in a dream. Try to remember what the
reasons are for doing something.
"I held her hand to cross
the river".
A reason factor offers greater explanation than may be first thought.
Am
I meeting the things I fear in the Dream?
Dreams
are entirely inward things, which are created from internal feelings. Images, monsters, likes, dislikes or fears, are all part of
ourselves, if we run away from them, we are simply running away from
ourselves, or avoiding important issues concerning ourselves. It's
important to try to define what your fears are to clarify what your are
really avoiding.
What
does the Dream mean?
Our
dreams are merely expressions of ourselves, that which has happened, or
conditions which have been created, either for or against
us. These symbols are created as if we are role playing a situation or
condition, allowing us an opportunity to come to terms with
or understand what they mean.
By
re-enacting a dream, we can identify more closely what the symbols
mean and give us a greater insight to what we are trying to
tell ourselves.
Enlarging
on the Dream
You will need to be very objective, often to an extreme, which sometimes
can seem quite absurd.
If
there is a walking stick in the dream, become that stick and ask yourself;
what am I made of ?
who is leaning on me?
why are they
leaning on me?
Write all your answers down and review them until
a fuller story emerges.
Can
I alter the Dream for greater understanding?
To
fully understand what a dream is telling us, it is often necessary to
change a Dream in some way. Identify certain aspects, a Dream may
vary greatly from reality, but, in altering the symbol, context, or action
to an every day situation or understanding, is an important part
of conditioning, which will
help you come to terms with what you
are trying to say, or tell yourself.
SUMMARY
Dreams
are an expression of our emotions, which we often experience
in our conscious or sub conscious, both in the day or at night, when we
are awake or when we are asleep.
They
are always related to a series of symbols, actions, situations or
circumstances, which our mind activates to help us come to terms with our
problems, and help balance our difficulties, or guide us into
areas which require interpretation.
Many
dreams allow us to experience unnatural situations, free flying,
breathing under water, sexual intercourse with a total strangers,
with their acceptance. We may die be born, or change into another form
of life.
A dream
creates circumstances or situations, which really portrays our self, our
fears, our inhibitions, our likes and dislikes. They
can be ridiculous, sublime, factual, one to four dimensional,
in black and white, or colour. They
can be distorted, obscure, fogged or life like.
Unfortunately,
many people fail to see the value of understanding
their dreams, these are what I call surface dwellers, they are the
ones who fail to see further than their self created, social confinement,
both physical or psychological and invariably miss the valued opportunity
to understand their real inner selves.
Only
when we wish to explore the infinite depths of the mind, beyond
which is restricted only by an inability, or lack of correct attitude,
will we as individuals be able to control our own Dreams, which will then
give to us the ultimate satisfaction and psychological development which
at present, we may only from time to time dream of.
The
following explanations are suggestions which will help you think and put
your dream into perspective. Helping you to understand your dreams more
fully will help you to come to terms with yourself.
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